tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5310981.post1898908164114797159..comments2024-03-04T07:45:15.155-07:00Comments on Hackman's Musings: De-friended on FacebookAndrewhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12494823779999456396noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5310981.post-9364036570135817712010-01-08T17:47:45.972-07:002010-01-08T17:47:45.972-07:00Society - Yeah... I am just trying to keep my fell...Society - Yeah... I am just trying to keep my fellow Christians from blaspheming... it's like a community service. ;)<br /><br />Speaking of Facebook, I wish they could somehow link the blog/note commentary. I have had some interesting discussions on the Facebook end of these blogs.Andrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12494823779999456396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5310981.post-19614633533764608842010-01-08T12:41:02.781-07:002010-01-08T12:41:02.781-07:00Man alive - I love these kind of stories! Gritty, ...Man alive - I love these kind of stories! Gritty, real, and facebook - delightful!<br /><br />I have taken a solemn oath - to myself - to be more affront with the people I have as friends on facebook that say religious things I may disagree with...in a polite and kind way...and to not hold my breath anymore. Not trying to cause sh*t - just trying to keep people in the loop of reality. <br /><br />But like you, I will likely lose a lot of friends - and I really don't care to be honest. I think sometimes, as in your situation, it is better to stand up and speak down these type of people then to not do so. They can get filled with a pseudo-spiritual pride where they use God in quite slanderous ways...in essence let's save them the embarrassment.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5310981.post-47860594237500568952009-12-29T07:57:10.319-07:002009-12-29T07:57:10.319-07:00Hey but I am your friend now. :)
This is sad. Dis...Hey but I am your friend now. :)<br /><br />This is sad. Discouraging.<br /><br />But.........I totally understand it because I used to think like that.<br /><br />I defriended all my former Fundy friends. (mostly college friends and family members) Their vitriol to every post/comment/etc that was contrary to their worldview wore me out after awhile.<br /><br />My wife is still friends with all of them. She can ignore all the s**t. Unfortunately I am not so inclined so it best to just stay away from them.Brucenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5310981.post-61118788015741504752009-12-24T19:51:51.489-07:002009-12-24T19:51:51.489-07:00Jesus Andrew! Can you blame them. ;)
Merry Christ...Jesus Andrew! Can you blame them. ;)<br /><br />Merry Christmas.Tit for Tathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09454132514796693591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5310981.post-57817542132707151232009-12-21T09:48:58.944-07:002009-12-21T09:48:58.944-07:00curmudgeon - Responses like with this "friend...curmudgeon - Responses like with this "friend" are extreme, but not uncommon. I think people like to believe we are more civilized and tolerant than 50 and 300 years ago, but when I see the anger that can come from people holding contrary views, I realize we are only a hair's breadth away from that previous violence. Give a guy like that unbridled authority and see how long before he is enforcing thoughts with a weapon... for the good of the group.<br />I am going to need to mull your thoughts about free speech... you are right, our words carry consequences.<br />I also agree that it is all about control.<br /><br />Brook- Two words:Google images... though I am in copyright violation up the wazoo.<br /><br />Don - my wife and I are in similar places in our journey, but she does get antsy sometimes with how much of it I state publicly. See ya on FB.Andrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12494823779999456396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5310981.post-57993684026619929402009-12-21T08:40:08.439-07:002009-12-21T08:40:08.439-07:00Andrew- I would like to invite you to be a friend ...Andrew- I would like to invite you to be a friend on FB. Don't have your email address and I'm writing this from work, where they don't allow FB at all. Plus, my Blackberry refuses to let me invite someone whose email address I do not know (sigh). So, when I get home this evening, I shall formally invite you to be a friend. Hope this makes up for your "de-friending"! And, like "Red", alias Michael, I was that "de-friender" just six years ago.Donhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04148676728860411325noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5310981.post-35143788835650172192009-12-21T08:27:21.792-07:002009-12-21T08:27:21.792-07:00I am in a similar position. After leaving Conserva...I am in a similar position. After leaving Conservative, fundamental Christianity after 59 years, most (95-99%) of my friends on FB are still in the conservative, fundie fold. To appease the wife, who doesn't see things as I do, I try not to be too controversial on FB. There are those whom I feel may think I'm a little strange, I as yet to experience the dreaded "de-friending". Blessings!!Donhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04148676728860411325noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5310981.post-74546764716570837282009-12-21T08:03:57.765-07:002009-12-21T08:03:57.765-07:00Andrew,
That book is one of my faves.
Wall TVs a...Andrew,<br /><br />That book is one of my faves.<br /><br />Wall TVs and rocket cars!Redleftyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04834798382800790723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5310981.post-5031542395585858472009-12-21T01:53:36.426-07:002009-12-21T01:53:36.426-07:00seriously, how do you always have some obscure pic...seriously, how do you always have some obscure picture to fit whatever you might be blogging about?!Brookhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05941025887514143276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5310981.post-67222216649557364502009-12-20T22:06:51.934-07:002009-12-20T22:06:51.934-07:00I have experienced the same reaction to my posts....I have experienced the same reaction to my posts. I know of one friend who left facebook as a result of my posts. However he did not leave before making me aware of his offense to my posts. I am sure a few others have blocked me. <br /><br />I think this type of coercion is designed to control the behavior of others. You should just be glad you writings weren't contemporary 300 years ago. You might have been executed. 50 years ago you might have been labeled a communist and then ostracized. Free speech is a myth...there is always a consequence to your opinions.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08142060911229450235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5310981.post-76791164325970090862009-12-20T22:05:40.996-07:002009-12-20T22:05:40.996-07:00Red- I hear ya. Have you read Farenheit 451? The...Red- I hear ya. Have you read Farenheit 451? There is this great scene where the protagonist Montag, who has had a damascus road experience of sorts, is completely frustrated with the petiness and blindness of his wife and her friends. His teacher has to remind him that, just yesterday, he thought as they thought.Andrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12494823779999456396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5310981.post-29889295117905867162009-12-20T20:13:15.961-07:002009-12-20T20:13:15.961-07:00That is the hardest type of person for me to feel ...That is the hardest type of person for me to feel compassion for. Because I see so much of my former self there. It's maddening to me that I can more quickly forgive a mass murderer than a closed-minded right-winger Christian.<br /><br />I'm working on it.Redleftyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04834798382800790723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5310981.post-30832109709696867912009-12-20T19:17:37.975-07:002009-12-20T19:17:37.975-07:00Don't even know what to do with that!
BTW, ...Don't even know what to do with that! <br /><br />BTW, I have noticed a tendency in your posts to regard Christians as "other". Your reference at the beginning of the post seemed to indicate that.Steve H.https://www.blogger.com/profile/09428882214098606433noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5310981.post-6629920466861281842009-12-20T16:09:40.928-07:002009-12-20T16:09:40.928-07:00I'm speechless.I'm speechless.Elder Engerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15291558928048825758noreply@blogger.com